How can I love someone who I actually hate?

I don't know this happens only with me? But I feel this way right now. When a person in your daily life and you can escape. (at your workplace or at home.) This is very bad situation I guess. I am in a familiar situation at the moment. And even when I try to get closer and try to spend quality time with him I just cant. When we start to talk about anything he suddenly say things which one are not true, and anyways its not his business. And he say the same things for me. And I feel like whatever I say to him, he is like not even listening. Just saying his own stuff. And he give me advice area of life he never be in. Like in my situation: I am planning a Christmas concert for our city. And he wants me to listen him advice. He never planned a concert before. I did a lot.

I don't know is there anybody who's feel the same way or similar with this situation. The worst part for me, that he saying lies about me. There is a big fight inside of me. I hope one day we can talk people like him and spend quality time with them.